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		<title>by: Joey</title>
		<link>http://www.commonties.com/blog/2007/05/31/addicted-to-pleasure/#comment-57716</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2008 21:25:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>OMG I have done it at work, in the middle of the day. While this guys was texting dirty naughty things to me. I work in  a lobby, people are always around. I did it. It was HOT!!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG I have done it at work, in the middle of the day. While this guys was texting dirty naughty things to me. I work in  a lobby, people are always around. I did it. It was HOT!!!!!!
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		<title>by: hank  johnson</title>
		<link>http://www.commonties.com/blog/2007/05/31/addicted-to-pleasure/#comment-56220</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 05:36:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I found this so interesting. We may be all addicted to pleasure.
It is true that you as a female have an advantage of being able to masturbate
without being discovered. When was in the 8th grade, I masturbated several times a day. We had a small house, and I had to hurry like you, as to not get caught by my sister, or mom. Some times I humped my pillow, had a box of kleenex near by. This having to hurry for a guy, doesn't work out so well later.
I have always suffered from premature ejacalation, which may have come from this hurry up mode. 
I am now married to a lady, who is addicted to sex. she masturbates several times 
some days, on her drive home from work, and any place the mood strikes. She has told me about sleeping with her boss, his friend, and masturbating with the help of 
my best friend. I have read about addictions, and about 85% were molested at a young age. Soceity, does put a double standard on this behavior for a female.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found this so interesting. We may be all addicted to pleasure.<br />
It is true that you as a female have an advantage of being able to masturbate<br />
without being discovered. When was in the 8th grade, I masturbated several times a day. We had a small house, and I had to hurry like you, as to not get caught by my sister, or mom. Some times I humped my pillow, had a box of kleenex near by. This having to hurry for a guy, doesn&#8217;t work out so well later.<br />
I have always suffered from premature ejacalation, which may have come from this hurry up mode.<br />
I am now married to a lady, who is addicted to sex. she masturbates several times<br />
some days, on her drive home from work, and any place the mood strikes. She has told me about sleeping with her boss, his friend, and masturbating with the help of<br />
my best friend. I have read about addictions, and about 85% were molested at a young age. Soceity, does put a double standard on this behavior for a female.
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		<title>by: mary Gibson</title>
		<link>http://www.commonties.com/blog/2007/05/31/addicted-to-pleasure/#comment-53544</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 04:20:23 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>You know I thought I was alone out here but I am not. I was really suprised when i seen this issue because i am with yall totalley. I too have my me times. And it makes me wonder does it all go back to my molestation issues. I can really relate to Audrey Kamen it was like i was reading about myself when i read her reply. I too feel like the super freak now instead of the scared 7 year old pretending to be asleep.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know I thought I was alone out here but I am not. I was really suprised when i seen this issue because i am with yall totalley. I too have my me times. And it makes me wonder does it all go back to my molestation issues. I can really relate to Audrey Kamen it was like i was reading about myself when i read her reply. I too feel like the super freak now instead of the scared 7 year old pretending to be asleep.
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		<title>by: Jackie Lynne</title>
		<link>http://www.commonties.com/blog/2007/05/31/addicted-to-pleasure/#comment-46114</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Mar 2008 08:54:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I loved this.  I enjoy how you flirted the line between "Is this wrong?" and "I'm me, so to hell with it".  You engaged the reader with your question at the end.  Your tastefulness does not make the reader embarrassed for you or themselves.  And I'm in the same spot luv.  ;) 

And to "Ethan Dickenson":
You may get labeled as a "sexual deviant" for masturbating, but more often than not, it's the "boys will be boys" mentality.  And if it's in public, EVERYONE gets labeled as a sexual deviant if they're caught.  Women and sexuality is still frowned upon.  We are still teaching young girls not to enjoy their bodies or their sexuality.  We get branded as "sluts", "whores", and "easy".  You get labeled as "studs".  So please don't say we "have it easy".  In physical terms, perhaps, because it is much less obvious, but that is the only way we "have it made".</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I loved this.  I enjoy how you flirted the line between &#8220;Is this wrong?&#8221; and &#8220;I&#8217;m me, so to hell with it&#8221;.  You engaged the reader with your question at the end.  Your tastefulness does not make the reader embarrassed for you or themselves.  And I&#8217;m in the same spot luv.  <img src='http://www.commonties.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>And to &#8220;Ethan Dickenson&#8221;:<br />
You may get labeled as a &#8220;sexual deviant&#8221; for masturbating, but more often than not, it&#8217;s the &#8220;boys will be boys&#8221; mentality.  And if it&#8217;s in public, EVERYONE gets labeled as a sexual deviant if they&#8217;re caught.  Women and sexuality is still frowned upon.  We are still teaching young girls not to enjoy their bodies or their sexuality.  We get branded as &#8220;sluts&#8221;, &#8220;whores&#8221;, and &#8220;easy&#8221;.  You get labeled as &#8220;studs&#8221;.  So please don&#8217;t say we &#8220;have it easy&#8221;.  In physical terms, perhaps, because it is much less obvious, but that is the only way we &#8220;have it made&#8221;.
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		<title>by: Ethan Dickenson</title>
		<link>http://www.commonties.com/blog/2007/05/31/addicted-to-pleasure/#comment-45976</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 18:19:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>You girls have it made!  I was addicted to masturbation too.  But if a boy indulges himself he's labeled as a sexual deviant!  Or he gets a ticket and recognized as a sex offender...  Thank goodness I never got too carried away... or caught when I did get carried away!  But guys have to be somewhere private and we can't 'do it through our clothes' for goodness sake!  And we brag about being able to pee standing up!  And why is it that the guy always has to beg...  It's because you girls can pleasure yourselves while you're working or reading a book on the couch!  So if you get horny...  you just go to the restroom.  We get horny and we have to beg and whine and plead for your merciful touch!  Curse you addicted female  masturbater!  Curse the vibrator, Bring back the cave man days where the man could drag the woman home by the hair!  (that's hot)  Oh...  and I do have to admit...  it's pretty hot knowing there are a bunch of girls out there that are as horny as I am.  All the time...  And here I thought girls just didn't even care for sex or have those feelings...  But no... the difference is they just don't need us guys to get off!  The good lord made it too easy for women!  I bet there were at least a hundred guys around you that would have given anything to know you were addicted to touching yourself!  But remind me not to shake your hand...  Actually, scratch that...  I'll shake your hand...  Because it's probably as close to the action as I'm a gonna get!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You girls have it made!  I was addicted to masturbation too.  But if a boy indulges himself he&#8217;s labeled as a sexual deviant!  Or he gets a ticket and recognized as a sex offender&#8230;  Thank goodness I never got too carried away&#8230; or caught when I did get carried away!  But guys have to be somewhere private and we can&#8217;t &#8216;do it through our clothes&#8217; for goodness sake!  And we brag about being able to pee standing up!  And why is it that the guy always has to beg&#8230;  It&#8217;s because you girls can pleasure yourselves while you&#8217;re working or reading a book on the couch!  So if you get horny&#8230;  you just go to the restroom.  We get horny and we have to beg and whine and plead for your merciful touch!  Curse you addicted female  masturbater!  Curse the vibrator, Bring back the cave man days where the man could drag the woman home by the hair!  (that&#8217;s hot)  Oh&#8230;  and I do have to admit&#8230;  it&#8217;s pretty hot knowing there are a bunch of girls out there that are as horny as I am.  All the time&#8230;  And here I thought girls just didn&#8217;t even care for sex or have those feelings&#8230;  But no&#8230; the difference is they just don&#8217;t need us guys to get off!  The good lord made it too easy for women!  I bet there were at least a hundred guys around you that would have given anything to know you were addicted to touching yourself!  But remind me not to shake your hand&#8230;  Actually, scratch that&#8230;  I&#8217;ll shake your hand&#8230;  Because it&#8217;s probably as close to the action as I&#8217;m a gonna get!
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		<title>by: Pawnbroker</title>
		<link>http://www.commonties.com/blog/2007/05/31/addicted-to-pleasure/#comment-45975</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 17:28:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I thoroughly enjoyed reading this post.. I am a 16 year old female. I discovered masturbating  about a year ago and have been doing it since. I always knew that it wasn't unnatual but I still get a thrill out of knowing that I should't be doing this or what would happen if I got caught..

home alone

Bathroom at work

watching a movie with my parents

babysitting

in the shower</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I thoroughly enjoyed reading this post.. I am a 16 year old female. I discovered masturbating  about a year ago and have been doing it since. I always knew that it wasn&#8217;t unnatual but I still get a thrill out of knowing that I should&#8217;t be doing this or what would happen if I got caught..</p>
<p>home alone</p>
<p>Bathroom at work</p>
<p>watching a movie with my parents</p>
<p>babysitting</p>
<p>in the shower
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		<title>by: laura</title>
		<link>http://www.commonties.com/blog/2007/05/31/addicted-to-pleasure/#comment-45930</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 03:58:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>oh....if only my body would tingle as easily as it did when I was 16!  
And no, you weren't alone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh&#8230;.if only my body would tingle as easily as it did when I was 16!<br />
And no, you weren&#8217;t alone.
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		<title>by: clancy true</title>
		<link>http://www.commonties.com/blog/2007/05/31/addicted-to-pleasure/#comment-43647</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 19:50:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I can relate to Darian's ectasy.  As a young man growing into puberty, I found the pleasures of masturbation and have enjoyed it most of my life.  Getting "away" with it in public was an extra thrill and I have done that four or five times.  Then to reach adulthood and find a femaler pardner who not only enjoyed doing it herself but liked watching me as well.  The best one is masturbating each other and then "cleaning" each other up, orally.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can relate to Darian&#8217;s ectasy.  As a young man growing into puberty, I found the pleasures of masturbation and have enjoyed it most of my life.  Getting &#8220;away&#8221; with it in public was an extra thrill and I have done that four or five times.  Then to reach adulthood and find a femaler pardner who not only enjoyed doing it herself but liked watching me as well.  The best one is masturbating each other and then &#8220;cleaning&#8221; each other up, orally.
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		<title>by: Audrey Kamen</title>
		<link>http://www.commonties.com/blog/2007/05/31/addicted-to-pleasure/#comment-24242</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jul 2007 08:07:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>No way are you alone I mas... (you know)  pretty much daily. It's that throbbing sensation that makes it all worth while, abandoning reality to your deepest darkest dirtiest thoughts that you secretly want. I sleep on a couch, next to another couch. and when everyones sleeping I sneakily ''get off ''while holding me breath and shoving my face into my pillow so noone will hear. Im not afraid to talk about it because thats not the vulnerable part, getting caught is. I was a curious girl partially gulty for being molested at an earlier age by a ''friend'' of my mother's. To this day i mas... about what happend except in my fantasy im a ''Supafreek'' instead of that scared confused 11 year old who pretended to be asleep.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No way are you alone I mas&#8230; (you know)  pretty much daily. It&#8217;s that throbbing sensation that makes it all worth while, abandoning reality to your deepest darkest dirtiest thoughts that you secretly want. I sleep on a couch, next to another couch. and when everyones sleeping I sneakily &#8216;&#8217;get off &#8216;&#8217;while holding me breath and shoving my face into my pillow so noone will hear. Im not afraid to talk about it because thats not the vulnerable part, getting caught is. I was a curious girl partially gulty for being molested at an earlier age by a &#8216;&#8217;friend'&#8217; of my mother&#8217;s. To this day i mas&#8230; about what happend except in my fantasy im a &#8216;&#8217;Supafreek'&#8217; instead of that scared confused 11 year old who pretended to be asleep.
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		<title>by: B. Kirlin</title>
		<link>http://www.commonties.com/blog/2007/05/31/addicted-to-pleasure/#comment-18048</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 May 2007 17:17:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I love it!  Brings back memories of the "secret pleasures" I have experienced...and makes me want more!  Thanks for a great story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love it!  Brings back memories of the &#8220;secret pleasures&#8221; I have experienced&#8230;and makes me want more!  Thanks for a great story.
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